The Pet Loss Grief Support Website & Candle Ceremony

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Welcome to Petloss.com, a gentle and compassionate website for pet lovers who are grieving over the death of a pet or an ill pet. Here you will find personal support, thoughtful advice, The Pets Candle Ceremony, Tribute Pages, healing poetry like Rainbow Bridge & much more.

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United We Stand

Click HERE to read "Welcome At Rainbow Bridge" (Original version).

Click HERE to read "Welcome At Rainbow Bridge" (Feline version).


The Rainbow Bridge story,
An answer to: Where do our pets go when they die?

El Puente del Arco Iris (Rainbow Bridge in Spanish)
Translation courtesy of Florencia Savino

Sateenkaarisilta (Rainbow Bridge in Finnish)
Translation courtesy of Tanja Saily

Le pont de l'Arc-en-Ciel (Rainbow Bridge in French)
Translation courtesy of Arnaud Bodenan

Regenbogen-Brücke (Rainbow Bridge in German)
Translation courtesy of Peter Heiligenstädt

Regenboog-Brug (Rainbow Bridge in Dutch)
Translation courtesy of Berjan van Beers

Regnbågens Bro (Rainbow Bridge in Swedish)
Translation courtesy of Christer Ankersjö

Regnbuebroen (Rainbow Bridge in Norwegian)
Translation courtesy of Kathe Arnesen

RB Chinese (Rainbow Bridge in Chinese)
Translation courtesy of Iris Ng

Regnbuebroen (Rainbow Bridge in Danish)
Translation courtesy of Aslaug Ruotsalainen

A Ponte do Arco Íris (Rainbow Bridge in Portuguese as spoken in Brazil)
Translation courtesy of Perola Lomaski


The Monday Pets Candle Ceremony
(The Candle Service & list of names.)

On Monday evenings all across the globe we light candles in memory of our pets. It is a very healing ritual with no adherence to any religion or creed, just a simple lighting of candles to bring us all together.
The Candle Ceremony is not done on-line. Each of us lights our candles in our own way, and privately, but since we share a common love and since most of us do light them at the same time, we are joined in love and in spirit.

Candle lighting times are...
In USA: 10 PM Eastern
9 PM Central
8 PM Mountain
7 PM Pacific

In Europe:
Central Europe - 10:00 PM GMT
UK - 9:00 PM GMT

Australia (West Coast) 6 PM
Australia (East Coast) 8 PM
New Zealand 9 PM

We also have online lists of the pets we honor in the Candle Ceremony.

The Bridgelist for those pets who have passed on to the Rainbow bridge and the Special Needs list for those pets who are ill or have special physical needs.

You are invited to add your pets to these lists.

In addition to the Bridgelist, you may also request that your special thoughts about your beloved pet be included in a Tribute.


The Candle Ceremony is in the news.
In the Sunday New York Times: Click here to read the story.
In the Ottawa Citizen: Click here to read the story.


Grief Support Chat Room
Open & available to everyone each evening at 9:00 PM Eastern time.
The Monday evening pet-loss chat includes an online Candle Ceremony at 10:00 PM Eastern time.

Click here to enter the Chat Room


Grief Support Message Board
This monitored Message Board is available for anyone who is grieving the loss of a pet or an ill pet and wants to communicate with others in the same situation.

Click here for the Message Board


A Meeting at the Bridge
A true & very moving affirmation that the Rainbow Bridge exists.

(If you participate in the Candle Ceremony, this is something you must read.)


Candle Ceremony Translations:

La Ceremonia De Las Velas De Los Lunes
Nosotros nos unimos para homenajear y recordar a nuestros amados animales.
Spanish translation courtesy of Florencia Savino.

La cerimonia delle candele del lunedi'
Noi ci uniamo per onorare e ricordare i nostri animali amati.
Italian translation courtesy of Giorgia Primavera.

Die Montags Kerzen Zeremonie
Wir kommen zusammen, um unsere geliebten Tiere zu ehren und sich ihrer zu erinnern.
German translation courtesy of Peter Heiligenstädt.

De Maandag Kaarsen Ceremonie We komen samen om onze huisdieren te eren en te herinneren.
Dutch translation courtesy of Berjan van Beers.


How the Candle Ceremony began. (Excerpted from Best Friends Magazine.)


Healing and inspirational poetry collection.

(Gentle words to help heal grieving hearts)


Grief and Pet Loss (A thoughtful and comprehensive article by Margaret Muns DVM)

  IL DOLORE E LA PERDITA DI UN ANIMALE AMATO (di Margaret Muns DVM)

  SURUTYÖ JA LEMMIKIN MENETTÄMINEN (Margaret Muns, ELT)

Finnish Translation courtesey of Tuula Ruotsalainen

  A DOR PELA PERDA DE UM ANIMAL QUERIDO (Margaret Muns, MV)

In Portuguese as spoken in Brazil
Translation courtesey of Perola Lomaski



Dealing with the Guilt by Ginger-lyn Summer
Excellent advice on how to overcome the terrible guilt so many of us feel after losing a beloved pet.


Grief Support Writing (How to Write and Share Your Story of Pet Loss - by Harley King)


Pet Loss Support Books.  View selected titles


Online Support Groups

There is a wonderful group of people who know from personal experience how much it hurts to lose a pet and are more than willing to help ease the pain. Join them for support, a shoulder to lean on, a gentle hug, some comforting poetry, even share some tears.

They understand how you feel. They have all been where you are now.

On the Internet:
The support group formerly located on CompuServe's TWPets Forum has moved!
Their new home is on the Best Friends website: http://www.bestfriends.org
In the Prayers, Healing and Support Bulletin Board located in the Members & Pets Forum.

I know the members of the Best Friends support group personally and most highly recommend them for their genuine sensitivity and caring.


Pet Loss Grief Support by Phone: List of services & phone numbers
Support by Local Group Meetings:
Click here for list of meeting locations by state.


Additional Grief Support Resources:
Click here for links to additional Pet-Grief Support and related Web Sites
Special Needs Resources:
Click here for websites about pet diseases & illnesses.

Biblical references to Animals & Heaven: Click Here.

Comments and suggestions for improving this Website are always appreciated.
Email: EdWilliams@compuserve.com


Original material copyright © Ed Williams 1995-2010 All rights reserved.